Hooray for parents who expect the most from their children, no matter what challenges they may face. This young girl has a world of obstacles ahead; however, her mother maintains that happiness is their top priority. Good for them.
Regardless of how optimistic they are, however, this family will likely get stared at a lot. Even though people come in all colors, shapes and sizes -- those that look different elicit stares almost daily. Thoughts on what do if people stare at someone you know and love:
1) Find the courage to start a conversation. You may be able to enlighten them about disabilities, human emotions or just the simple joys of being friendly.
2) Wave or say hello, even if it's awkward. At the very least, this will probably cause them to stop staring.
3) Invite them to speak directly to or ask a question about the person they're staring at. This works especially well with kids. I will sometimes ask a young child, "Is there something you'd like to say to us?" They'll usually talk about Andrew's wheelchair or ask "why doesn't he walk?" Then, Andrew can explain for himself.
4) There's no denying it -- rude people exist in the world. If all else fails, stare back. We have made this a real art in our family.
5) Never lose your sense of humor. This holds true for just about everything in life, doesn't it?!
